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What Medium Can Teach You About Dating

John Edwin
4 min readDec 18, 2024

At first glance, writing on Medium and navigating the world of dating might seem worlds apart. But when you dig deeper, you'll find that the two share surprising similarities. Both require vulnerability, patience, and an understanding of what resonates with others. Whether you’re crafting an article or building a relationship, the lessons are strikingly transferable.

Here’s how Medium can become your unlikely dating coach.

1. First Impressions Matter

On Medium, your headline is the first thing readers see. A weak or vague title? Scroll. But a headline that intrigues and promises value? Click. Dating is no different—your first impression sets the tone.

On Medium:

“10 Lessons I Learned in My 20s” grabs attention more effectively than “My Random Thoughts.”

In Dating:

Show up as your authentic self, but highlight what makes you interesting. A confident introduction beats small talk any day.

Takeaway:

Lead with intrigue and honesty—whether it’s your headline or your opening line.

2. Vulnerability Wins Hearts

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John Edwin
John Edwin

Written by John Edwin

Prolific writer, public health specialist, and tech enthusiast with 12 books on Amazon. I craft stories and insights that inspire action and spark conversations

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